Ako otec s dcérou: Medzi Carrie a Alanom je 32-ročný vekový rozdiel. Manželmi sú už 17 rokov!

Láske sa medze nekladú a mnohí partneri majú medzi sebou istý vekový rozdiel. Pre každého je únosná miera tolerancie iná, no ak sa dvaja milujú nie je čo riešiť. Problém nastáva iba vtedy ako takýto vzťah vníma rodina zaľúbencov a ich okolie. Málokto si však pomyslí, že ide o úprimnú lásku ak je medzi partnermi vekový rozdiel aj 3 dekády. Okolie to často vníma ako využívanie a neverí tak, že sa dvaja naozaj ľúbia. Dôkazom toho je aj vzťah Carrie (44) a Alana (76).

The 4th episode of Age Gap Love Story is live! You can listen on Apple Podcasts (or any podcast app) or watch the episode on YouTube (Age Gap Love Story). . In this episode, we share our best tips for picking a partner, how to make sure that person is right for you, and some specific issues to consider for age gap dating. 💕 . We discuss financial considerations, baggage from previous relationships, and some overall thoughts on what makes a relationship strong and long-lasting. . Now it’s your turn! What are your best tips for dating in an age gap situation? What challenges do you face or have you overcome? We want to know! . And, if you like the show, please consider leaving us a review on Apple Podcasts. We so appreciate your support! . Here is the link for listening: https://agegaplovestory.libsyn.com/episode-4-tips-for-dating-getting-serious-in-an-age-gap-relationship-0 . . . . . #agegap #agegaprelationship #agegapromance #agegaplove #agegaplife #agegaplovestory #agegaprelationships #agegapcouple #agegapmarriage #agegapcouples #agegapcommunity #agedifference #maydecember #maydecemberromance #maydecembercouple #ageisjustanumber #dating #30yearagedifference #20yearsandcounting

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Všetko to začalo pred približne 22 rokmi, keď mala Carrie 23 rokov a Alan 55. Carrie pracovala pre Alanovho klienta a obaja vedeli o vekovom rozdiele no aj napriek tomu ich to k sebe ťahalo. Poznali sa iba cez telefón a jedného dňa ju Alan pozval na obed. Vo vzťahu boli od roku 1998 a vzali sa v roku 2003. Carrie priznala, že randila aj chlapom o 15 rokov starším a Alan bol takisto so ženami, ktoré boli od neho mladšie no nie až tak ako Carrie. 

Coming up on 17 years of marriage to my best friend! 💕 You can imagine that before we got married, many people thought our relationship wouldn’t last. We have three decades of age difference between us, but we knew from the beginning that we were soul mates. . So, despite the odds, we trusted our love and overcame so many obstacles. We’ve gone through so many changes, moves, stresses, and hardships (I got cancer in 2012!), but feel like our relationship is stronger than ever. Marriage is like any other relationship in that it changes and evolves. Some marriages have a natural ending, but I’m glad ours is still going strong. . I’m also super excited to announce that we are in the process of creating our podcast together, the Age Gap Love Story! We are planning to release the first 3 episodes on July 27th (I’ll put the link in our profile). We’ll be covering topics related to age gap relationships including having (or not having) children, planning for the future, family issues, managing our differences, and so much more. . To stay updated on news related to the podcast and other issues around age gaps, please follow our account and go ahead and subscribe to the podcast. I can’t wait to get to know you! And, please let me know what topics you would like to have us cover in the podcast. ❤️ . . . . . . #agegap #agegaprelationship #agegapromance #agegaplove #agegaplife #agegaplovestory #agegaprelationships #agegapcouple #agegapmarriage #agegapcouples #agegapcommunity #agedifference #maydecember #maydecemberromance #maydecembercouple #ageisjustanumber #podcast #podcaster

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Ako to berú ich rodiny?

Z predošlého manželstva má Alan dve dcéry, ktorým vysvetlil, že to z Carrie myslí vážne. Carrie však pri svojej rodine nemala toľko šťastia. “Moja mama bola znepokojená, keď som jej povedala o Alanovi, ktorý je o 5 rokov starší ako ona. Bála sa, že ma Alan chce iba využiť. Dokonca som čakala kým všetko mame poviem zo strachu ako na to zareaguje aj napriek tomu, že ma už Alan dávno požiadal o ruku. Väčšina mojej rodiny a priateľov tak Alana prijalo hlavne po tom čo ho stretli a uvedomili si ako veľmi mu na mne záleží,” priznala Carrie.

Hello world! 👋🏼 We are Carrie and Alan, a couple living in California with a 32 1/2 year age gap. We met in 1998 and got married in 2003. . We are soulmates in every way, and knew it from the start. Our first interaction was actually over the phone for a work thing (this was back before email existed). Even just chatting over the phone, I got a sense of Alan’s humor and kind heart. 😆 ❤️ . When we met in person a few weeks later, we were both intrigued by each other. Our large age difference was tough to overcome, though. We experienced a lot of pushback from family (mostly from my mom), and other difficulties that we had to work out. . We had another major hurdle to overcome when I was diagnosed with cancer in 2012. Alan was with me every step of the way. Now, as we approach our 17th wedding anniversary, we celebrate our health, our love, and our ongoing commitment to each other. 💕 . And, we are debuting our first business collaboration…Age Gap Love Story! This will be a podcast and YouTube channel where we share our experiences and insights. We hope to build a strong supportive community and help other couples who have a large age difference. Stay tuned for more!!! ❤️ . . . . . #agegap #agegapcouple #agegaplovestory #maydecember #thyroidcancer #truelove #cancersurvivor #olderman #soulmates #cleaneatingcarrie #silverfox #agegaplove #agegaprelationship #agegapcommunity #agegapmarriage #agegapcouples #maydecemberromance #maydecembersociety #agegaplife

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Ľudia sa za nimi otáčajú

Okrem jej matky, na ich vzťah reaguje podobne aj verejnosť. Mnoho ľudí sa ich tak pýta či je Carrie Alanova dcéra. No keď im povie, že to je jeho manželka, všetci sa tvária začudovane.”Na verejnosti sa často neobjímame, nebozkávame ani nedržíme za ruky zo strachu z negatívnych reakcií,” priznáva Carrie. No aj tak sú v manželstve obaja veľmi šťastní, keďže zdieľajú rovnaké názory na svet, majú veľmi podobné povahy a vzájomne sa dopĺňajú. 

Happy 17th wedding anniversary to my husband, life partner, father to our fur-babies, and soulmate. I can’t wait to see what adventures we have ahead of us! I love you forever!!! 💓💓💓 . . . . . #agegap #agegaprelationship #agegapromance #agegaplove #agegaplife #agegaplovestory #agegaprelationships #agegapcouple #agegapmarriage #agegapcouples #agegapcommunity #agedifference #maydecember #maydecemberromance #maydecembercouple #ageisjustanumber #anniversary #thisismystory #agegappodcast #loveislove #happyanniversarymylove #happyanniversary #happyanniversary❤️

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“Tým, že je ten starší partner vyspelejší dodáva tomu mladšiemu stabilitu a istotu. Mladší partner tak dodáva tomu staršiemu energiu a radosť zo života. Každý z nich sa tak môže jeden od druhého veľa naučiť,” vysvetľuje Carrie. No aj napriek tomu, že sú obaja šťastný, Carrie má obavy. Tým, že nemajú deti sa bojí samoty a toho aký bude jej život bez Alana. 

 

Aký je ideálny vekový rozdiel medzi partnermi podľa Vás? Je od Vás partner starší?

zdroj: metro.co.uk